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30s & 40s Singles

Are you a 30 or 40 something year old that has yet to settle down? Share your battles, advice and find the one 😉

5.8K members
  1. Analyst Consultant

    If you’re a guy who can’t find a gf after trying for many years, should just assume you don’t have good enough genes and give up? Please don’t give me me some touchy feely crap, like “there is a perso...

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  2. Senior Vice President

    How to find a lady to date and see if there is anything to build in Dubai? I am Single, from London, 4 weeks old here, but it seems like a breeding ground for Pros’s which I am not into at all. Any ad...

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    R_Ethan R_Filip

    Hello everyone, My name is Brad and I'm new here. How is everyone doing today? Good, I hope. I'm ok I guess, Besides feeling like I've been betrayed again by the same person. I don't know why I keep c...

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  4. Student

    I need advice, I’m a guy, 25. I didn’t really date growing up for various reasons, extreme shyness, focus on academics, etc. I just started going on dates and honestly see myself getting rejected beca...

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  5. Business Analyst

    I’m looking for a meaningful connection and companionship, I'm open to exploring that possibility. Compatibility and mutual respect are important to me. If you're interested, let's chat and see where ...

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  6. Warehouse Worker

    30 yr Brother who just been dumped bad

  7. Analyst

    As a shy and socially anxious guy, how can I come across as more attractive on dates?

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  8. Tax Manager

    I’m not sure guys accept this logic. If a guy wants to split the tab, and he is not 1) much younger than me and making less money 2) much cuter than me, I consider that a gesture of calling me ugly. ...

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  9. Marketing Coordinator

    New to app in general. Interesting to find this. Curious, have any of you met people from here? Dated for a decent time or still in a relationship with? Literally just fascinated haha.

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  10. Digital Strategy Consultant

    Real talk: what are your techniques for deciphering if a man is married and not volunteering that information? Cheating is so prevalent and married men are all over the dating scene so I don’t trust a...

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  11. Analyst

    Dating is hard for me. I was wondering if someone here would be willing to give me advice over DM. I can explain my situation in more detail. I’m a 28M with a disability, thanks!

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  12. works at Deloitte

    Need one of those laid back weekends of fun and f$cK. Hitting that dating fatigue 😩

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  13. works at AlixPartners

    Any Female Fishes want to hangout in Dubai? 34/M here who recently relocated to the region from NYC.

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  14. Warehouse Associate

    Any lady from northern jersey? … 42/M

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  15. Engagement Manager

    F fish, please help me decode. 36M here. Reconnected with a friend (lady) after many years recently. After a few random coffee chats, decided to hang out all day on Saturday doing a few different th...

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  16. Project Coordinator

    What would you say to someone who said "let me know when yall breakup" to you? My boyfriend seems like he doesn't make an effort with our relationship anymore. He never talks about the future with me ...

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  17. Owner

    Happy Sunday dear fishies :)

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  18. Fixed Income

    Anyone want to talk? About life, values, tv shows, music, ambitions, vent session… whatever.. feel free to DM!

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    R_Calum R_Austin

    So... just found this. Interesting 🤔 on the GD app there's now... dating?? 🤷🏼‍♂️ lol 😆 I'm 45, a single white male, professor of biology/human anatomy & physiology, Tampa area. Anyone out there t...

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  20. works at KPMG

    I am spending over $1k on hair and makeup next week for a wedding that isn’t even mine 🤦🏽‍♀️ Indian wedding season is upon us, good luck with the “why are you not married yet” questions ✨

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